Sunday, May 20, 2012

Speeding Time and Sad Good-byes

My good intentions of updating this blog frequently sort of fell by the wayside during the last 2 weeks of my stay in Haiti.  The reason for this lapse was simply the fact that when I had time to update, we didn't have power; and when we had power, I didn't have time!  For the last 5 days, I didn't have internet access at all.  This blog post is a bit lengthy but consists mostly of pictures, so enjoy!  

Jason and Carolyn arrived at Haiti Children's Home on Tuesday, May 8th and their first evening there was already a bit of an adventure.  It was time to make supper and we discovered that our gas powered stove was out of fuel.  While we were discussing what we could make on our rather dilapidated electric griddle, the power went out . . . and then the sky opened up a torrent of rain.  I had already mentally resigned myself to a candlelit meal of peanut butter and jelly but . . . Carolyn had her heart set on beef stroganoff, so we embarked on the adventure of cooking over charcoal, by the light of candles and flashlights. 

Our next days were spent completing various projects.  Jason was kept busy using his imagination and woodworking experience to create various thing out of  . . . well . . . random pieces of not much of anything.

I think he rather enjoyed the challenge and the rest of us were rather amazed at the things he was able to create.  

Carolyn and I shaved the hair off the heads of 16 little boys and fed them chew-able vitamin C's as a reward for being so brave.  Does it make me a bit of a  health nut that I couldn't bring myself to feed them candy every time they bravely endured the cleaning of a cut or some other minor medical procedure?  Hey, they thought the vitamins were rather yummy!

We had Pool time . . .



And we had Chalk time . . .

   


We spent a wonderfully, relaxing day at the beach . . .




We were introduced to the painful wounds induced by impetigo . . .
We witnessed the first meeting between a child and her forever family . . .


We traveled to a remote mission, riding for miles and miles up a steep mountain road, on the back of a truck.  There we visited a school . . ..

We toured a newly built clinic that's sitting on the top of the mountain, waiting for someone to run it . . .

We stood on top of the world and asked questions, pondered, wondered . . .

We saw scenery that took our breath away and a beauty of people that did the same.

We're home now and the world seems strangely quiet.  I remember the way those little faces felt as I held them between my hands on the morning I left.  I kissed each forehead and told them I loved them.  I feel their little arms wrapped around me and I hear their questions of why and when will I come back?  I can't answer those questions.  In my head, I picture the way their beds are arranged in their room and when I know they're sleeping, I pray a blessing on each one.

This trip has truly been a gift from God and many of our friends and family were very instrumental in making it happen.  Thank you so much for making it possible!  
   

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Little Moments and Little Things

Today I thanked God for:

Polysporin & Gauze
  • Haitian bananas & Haitian Coke
  • Bubbles and the giggles they bring
  • Bug spray
  • Gas cook stoves
  • Solace of the rooftop and a yard quiet with napping children
  • Healing wounds that remind me what an amazing designer God is
  • The glorious orb of the moon that turns the midnight into near day  
16 pairs of little feet and 16 little boys that sleep so soundly each night, while I rub lotion on their feet and tuck those precious toes into mismatched socks


One joyous little guy who loudly sings a song just for me 
Haitian Corn & New Friends

 Comforting rain on my tin roof
Brand New Pajamas
Little Boys
Childlike Joy

  • Sundays
  • Hands lifted high in praise
  • Amy's no-bake cookies
  • Smiles across language barriers
  • Soon to be reunions
  • All the moments and all the lessons learned.

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

A Different Kind of Normal

Wow.  Some days are just summed up in that one word.  There really are inadequate words to describe some of the things that happen here.  Saturday was one of those days.  It was such a day that most of it went undocumented by pictures.  Things just happen and who thinks to pull out the camera when life is happening? Especially this life.

I crawled out of my cot at 7:45AM like I do pretty much every morning.  I was met at the door of the main house by Lony, our 11 year old and oldest boy on the compound.  "The children are trouble today!  When Lori gets here there will be big trouble!"  he informed me emphatically.  Uh oh, what happened?  He proceeded to fill me in on the mayhem that had transpired in the wee hours of the morning, while I slept.  Have any of you had those children that went through destructive phases?  You know, when you're 3 year old gets into the pantry and proceeds to dump an entire Sam's Club size jug of chocolate syrup in your carpet?  Just because?  Well, imagine if you had sextuplets, all going through that phase at once and somehow they slipped away from the supervising eyes of their nanny during the night!  Well, lets just say that some of our adorable little boys had been very, very naughty!

We had planned an outing to the local market at 9:00AM but that was postponed for a few hours because when Lori arrived there were discussions to be had and consequences to be dealt out.  At times like these we remind each other that these children have endured a tremendous amount of change over the last 3 years.  First of all no child is meant to grow up in an orphanage.  They were meant to live in a family where they don't have to constantly compete with numerous other children for attention and love.  They were meant to have a mom & a dad, who they can  follow around and absorb the proper way to do things, care for things and interact with people.  Add to that being moved into tents in the yard and then plywood houses, due to earthquake damage to the main building and volunteers coming and going without any real consistency in staff over that same time, you end up with some rather wild kiddos in serious need of structure and a lot of patience.


We did finally make to the market.  Once again we traveled via motorbikes.  In the previous 4 times that I've been to Haiti, I had a total of 1 motorbike ride.  Now it is a very common and convenient mode of transport and we take them everywhere.  Market was hot and busy as usual but we didn't delve into the deepest, smelliest parts; instead we merely perused through the vendors along the main entrance.  In a few weeks when Jason and our friend, Carolyn, arrive, I think we'll need to make another more in depth trip.  Everyone should see a large bowl filled with goat heads at least once!


The rest of my afternoon was spent reading to kiddos, washing my sheets and cleaning my room.  The cleaning part was progressing along nicely until I spotted some long, hairy spider legs stretching over the side of the air mattress that is currently leaning against one wall of my room.  Bug spray only stunned it and then it scuttled across the room and under my bed.  Oh boy!  I knew I would have difficulty sleeping that night if I didn't kill that creature, so I hunted it down and beat it to death with my flip flop!  Yuck!  I'm not particularly squeamish about spiders but this one was definitely out of my comfort zone!  It shriveled up to much after it was dead to be sure, but I'm pretty certain that it was a tarantula.   
                                                                                                     
Supper was almost ready at 7:00pm, when the truck showed up for us to take some of the children to get their passport photos taken.  When I say "showed up" I mean the truck drove through the gate without prior warning and we all dashed about fetching children and changing them from their pajamas into 'church' clothes as quickly as possible.  I was told that Haitians only take their pictures in the evening because they don't want to look sweaty on their photos.  All these random, interesting facts that one learns.  Anyway, we covered up the food to keep the creatures at bay and off we went.  It was an adventure, to be sure.  Five white girls and 6 little children in the back of a rattle trap pickup headed into town.  The children did relatively well considering that they hadn't been in a 'machine' in a long time and rarely get outside the compound except for walking to church on Sundays.  We crowded into a little hole-in-the-wall waiting room and it kept filling up with more and more people; sitting on every spare inch of bench and hovering in the doorways. Just for your information, there is ALWAYS room for one more in Haiti.  Even if there isn't.  Finally, the pictures were taken and tired little children were falling asleep with little sweat beads forming on their foreheads.  On the way home, it started to rain and the truck cage was not water proof in the least.  That was bearable but what I found disturbing was the large spidery thing that crawled across my foot in the dark.

It was 9:00pm before we sat down to eat our supper, exhausted but content.   Mostly contented anyway, the rat that seems to have staked out the back of the bathroom door as it's own personal hang out sort of disturbs my peace.





Wednesday, April 25, 2012

A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

Finally, a few pictures for you.  As mentioned before, the children had a grand time on Sunday playing in the excess water run off from our water tanks on the roof.  It only takes a simple thing to bring great delight and they splished and splashed with uninhibited exuberance! 


Dancing in circles.

Waiting their turn.

Oh my, could I be any cuter?!


Love this one!


Samuel is one of the little guys that I get to spend quality time with every day.  He's such a fun four-year-old and now that he's used to spending time with me, he chatters constantly and sings loudly!



Last night at bedtime several of the boys were asking me if they were going to get to go to Canada.  A lot of the children from this particular orphanage are adopted by families from Canada and so it seems all the children associate Canada with having a family of their own.  I told them that I didn't know and it made me sad to realize that some of these precious boys still do not have forever families waiting for them.  I think at this point there are 28 children here and 13 of them, including all the girls, have adoption paperwork in the works.  The rest are still watching their friends leave, wondering when it'll be their turn.  I'm wishing that Haiti's adoption laws wouldn't prevent Jason & I from adopting, because I think I could handle a houseful of ornery little boys.  I might gray young but I'd be willing to take that chance!